I was reading this quote,
“the biggest communication problem is we don’t listen to understand we listen to reply” by Stephen Covey
This is wonderfully true, I have so many friends that when I talk to them I can see they already have their replies lined up, maybe that’s why I don’t share too much. Also, I usually don’t see things personally.
There is also one more thing, once my friend was so upset and she was pouring all her feelings on me. I was taking my time to reply and I remember she was urging me to give her answers.
Please, next time someone comes to you. Listen, Deep listening. Like meditation so you can understand them in a deep level. hold hands, if that helps.
Love you all,